hey hey hey ! and hello ! happy saturday !! ^^
i just wanna share a bit first date tips to you fellas ! :)
ok ok..kekadang bila kita akan first date msti kita mcm gelabah,dan cuak gila babeng kan?kan?what shud we do ?!what shud we wear!where shud we go! and bla..bla...bla..belum ape2 lagi keciak dah peloh2 sebab nebes pnye hal..!nak nak lgi bila kita akan date dgn someone yg memang dah lame kita suke kann! finnally! takkan lah dah bertahun2 u guys nk cbe knali dia,then bila dh date u guys spoiled it just like that ! remember maybe org semua ckp dont judge book by its cover right? yah !dats right tp bila first date we judge the cover first kann! kalau dtg sememeh selekeh bagai ^^ rsenyer kita msti assume mcm2 kan. :) *ish cam penagih jer nih ^^, ish mndi ke tak dia ni?^^ dan bla..bla..bla..baik pmpuan mhupun laki ^^
on your first date.....
be creative :)
Take a little time to think it through.
A three-hour date with a movie that lasts two and a half-hours is not a good way to get acquainted.Then again, you don't want to be stuck staring at each other without a topic of conversation.A daytime meeting takes the heat off.
then acane nak be creative to? suggestion -lunch or tea time is a good start :)
even better u guys doing a trip to zoo ^^,
Plenty of topics for discussion without having to deal with issues like:
"What happened to your last relationship?"
And you can avoid the usual casual chit-chat like:
"I met my first boyfriend on the prison bus."
first date ^^ yg mmbosankan kalau begitu.
kann?kalau pegi zoo byk bnde boleh jdikan topik ^^cntohnye "eh tgk gajah tu?" eh u tau tak fakta tentang zifarah? "eiii monkey tu comelnyer !" i nak bela satu lah ! haaa.. macam2 yg boleh cakap uuuu ^^
Be kids again kalau tak g zoo then go to the park. The great thing about kids is they can have fun anywhere, remember that feeling and enjoy it with this new person in your life.
Do something you've never done before. If you're typically indoors, try an outdoor activity and if you love the outdoors, consider an indoor one.
Go roller skating with the person. Most people know how to roller skate and even if you feel silly, laugh it off. ^^ kan mesti terkeluar perangai sebenar :)
or Invite your date to a potluck picnic in which he or she brings three favorite foods and you do the same. Meet somewhere to share this makeshift meal and enjoy sampling favorites. kan ?mesti lagi rpat kan, know each other better ^^
clothing-Wear clothes that make you feel good. for girls jgn la pakai seksi lurah sana sni smpai si laki pun tak tau nak pndang yg mne ^^ pakai yg selesa dgn anda,kalau tk slse ur whole day akan messy!so date pn tak jadik! yg lelaki jgn la plak g pakai tuksedo pegi zoo ^^
-help other person feel comfortable ^^
Find something nice about your date and compliment her or him.
But mean it. Don't just say, "Nice shoes, Gladys."
"Swell belt, Ralph."
Find something nice. If it's painfully difficult to come up with something that you sincerely like about the person, you shouldn't be out with them in the first place. ^^
then bila dah date thanks the other person for the date.
-give a full focus(pay attention,jgnla time date u guys ckp, mata u ke kiri ke kanan, pstuh tenung gila gila plak awek seksi yg buat iklan lalu lalang dpan u guys smpaikan ur date rse cam nak letak tapak kaki dia dkat muka u guys ^^, then si girl pn sme lah jugk ^^ yer )
-listen carefully when ur date says (
Don't interrupt. While your date is talking, don't spend time thinking about what you're going to say when it's your turn.) jgn la dia bru jer nak citer u dah sampuk2..bru nk ckp u smpuk lgi..tawu la u excited or u ada byk bnde sgt nak dicakapkan ^^ cool babe ~ cool ^^
senang citer be who you are :) jgn terover jgn terkurang ececeh ^^
ha las sekali who pays ? ^^
-The man pays
-The person who initiates the date pays
However, you can divide the costs such that if one person pays for dinner, the other pays for the movie or other things ^^. It isn't impolite to ask if you can contribute to the costs; however, a generous partner will always refuse such an offer.^^
so stay positive.
Don't complain on a first date :)